Frequently Asked Questions

What exactly do you offer? Is this legal?

I offer clothed, consensual domination sessions using tools like floggers, whips, paddles, crops, blindfolds, and textured materials. Each session includes clear boundaries, a safeword system, and a mix of physical and sensory control. There is no nudity, no genital contact, and no sexual services.

Yes. All sessions are strictly within legal boundaries—fully clothed, consensual, and focused on sensation, power exchange, and psychological play. I do not offer or imply sexual activity. This is a professional experience centered around kink-informed bodywork and dominance.

Where do sessions happen?

Sessions are held in a safe, private space agreed upon in advance. Clients may provide a session location (with screening), or we can coordinate one together. All locations must be clean, quiet, and respectful of privacy.

I’m new to this. Is that okay?

Absolutely. New submissives and curious clients are welcome. You don’t need to know what you like—I'll guide the experience and explain everything before we begin. There’s no pressure to perform or “know the rules.”

What should I wear or bring?

Wear something comfortable that helps you feel grounded, safe, and open to the experience. You may bring water, a journal, or any comfort item. If you have a favorite blindfold or tool, you're welcome to bring it, though I supply everything needed for the session.

Do I need to fill out a form or give my ID?

Yes. For safety and professionalism, I require:

First name (and preferred name)
Photo ID (to confirm you are 18+)
Emergency contact (not shared or used unless necessary)
Known health issues, injuries, or trauma history (voluntary disclosure)

This keeps us both safe and grounded in trust.

What’s your cancellation policy?

Cancellations made within 24 hours of your session time forfeit your deposit. If you need to reschedule, I allow one reschedule per deposit. No-shows will not be rebooked.

How do I book a session?

Email me directly with:

Your name
Desired session length
Timeframe you’re available
Any specific interests or limits

Once screened, I’ll confirm your time and send payment instructions for your deposit.

Do you dominate women / queer clients / couples?

Yes. My work is inclusive, trauma-informed, and kink-aware. I welcome clients of all genders, orientations, and relationship structures—provided boundaries are respected and professionalism is mutual.

Do you offer long-term dynamic or training?

For returning clients, yes. If you’re interested in developing a long-term power exchange, behavior shaping, or ritual-based training dynamic, let’s discuss it after your first session.

Is aftercare included?

Yes. Every session ends with time for calming, grounding, and check-in. Aftercare can include conversation, stillness, light touch, or guided breathwork, depending on your needs.

I have more questions…

Great. Curious clients are my favorite. Use the contact form or email me to ask directly—respectfully, clearly, and with genuine intent.

Common Kink & Submission Terms – For Curious Clients and First-Time Subs

By Dominatrix Duluth

Curious about domination, submission, or just dipping your toes into kink? This guide is for you. Whether you're a seasoned submissive or a wide-eyed newbie, understanding the language helps us build trust, stay safe, and create unforgettable sessions.

Submissive Types & Play Styles

Sub / submissive – Gives up control and receives direction.
Brat – Mischievous and playful; enjoys teasing and testing limits to get a reaction.
Good girl / good boy / good pet – Thrives on praise and positive reinforcement.
Service sub – Finds fulfillment in completing tasks and pleasing their dominant.
Primal prey – Operates from instinct; enjoys being “hunted” or overpowered in a raw, energetic dynamic.
Pet – May enjoy being cared for, trained, or treated like a companion animal (puppy, kitten, etc.).
Rope bunny – Loves being restrained, especially through rope or bondage play.
Masochist – Enjoys receiving consensual pain or intense sensation.
Loyal sub – Emotionally connected and craves structured control and consistency.

Dominant Roles & Archetypes

Dom / Domme – General title for someone who takes control.
Mistress / Master – Traditional ownership-based dynamic with formal structure.
Mommy Domme / Daddy Dom – Nurturing but firm authority figure; offers care and control.
Sadist – Enjoys giving consensual pain or intense physical sensation.
Primal hunter – Instinct-driven dominance; raw, physical, energetic.
Handler / Trainer – Works with submissives or “pets” through tasks, rituals, or behavior training.

Session & Scene Terms

Impact play – Includes spanking, flogging, paddling, crops, and other tools that create physical sensation through striking.
Sensory play – Uses blindfolds, temperature changes, feathers, textures, sounds, etc., to heighten awareness and anticipation.
Edge play – Intense or risky play that requires high levels of trust and experience. Always negotiated and never rushed.
Subspace – A trance-like or floaty mental state some submissives enter during intense play.
Aftercare – Emotional and physical care provided after a session to help a client ground, recover, and feel safe.
Safeword – A pre-agreed word that immediately stops or slows down the scene (common choices: “red” to stop, “yellow” to pause).
Hard limits – Activities that are strictly off-limits, no exceptions.
Soft limits – Activities that may be allowed with caution or under specific conditions.

This glossary isn’t a checklist—it’s a shared language. We use it to communicate clearly, protect each other, and shape an experience that’s exactly what you need. If you’re not sure where you fit in, that’s perfectly okay. I’ll guide you.